Dating means a lot more than 'doing the boyfriend and girlfriend thing', Bolin. It's nice to be able to go on dates and things but sometimes you just have to enjoy one another's company when you can and support each other the best you can as well.

[She doesn't want to sound like she's lecturing here but boiling it down to just 'boyfriend and girlfriend thing' annoys her. It's not just a thing, it's a commitment.]

You're not useless though, it's just... a lot of these things are ones only I can take care of. You can't train for me or run Zaofu for me either.